Something to anticipate

Today is the day.

Every corner of the department is full of anticipation.

Though everyone has a calm expression, I believe they awaits for ‘The letters of joy’; just like I do.

This is one of the most anticipated moments for a white collar worker like me.

Life with anticipation makes one strong and determinant. That is why we are implant with all these words at different phrase of our life.
Ambition -> Dream -> Aim -> Objective -> Vision -> Goal

One fine day, an acquaintance asked me, “梦想是什么？怎么寻找自己的梦想？”
I sat still; it took me a second to answer her. Not because I do not know the answer. Rather, there was this emptiness in her iris that made me felt sorry for her, I don’t know why. Maybe, because she does not know what to anticipate from her life. But I believe all she needs is a little bit more exposure and time to determine her dream or goal. Maybe she does not  realize she already has one, only has less prioritized it.

I believe, as long as we have something to cling on, we will be a survivor in life. Be it family, love, money or glory. It can be anything simple but important to you.

I believe everyone has one.

Life is beautiful, despite how much you possess. It’s how you appreciate from what you possess now.

Anticipate for better, but live now.

“生活有寄托，会使一个人坚强、积极、奋斗。反之，会很沮丧、无聊或颓废地活一辈子。”

开工吉祥日

刚才纯属好玩的心情，问Cheng我们的开工吉祥日是何时。
问了也不禁地笑了，还以为他会笑我迷信。
他回笑了点，然后拿着日历，“我们（属猴的）的吉祥日是2月11日或14日”
哈哈，原来只是我一直没重视罢了。
原来农历新年是那么多姿多彩的。。。真派舍！
你的开工吉祥日是哪一天啊？

你的感情经得起考验吗？

你的感情经得起考验吗？

How strong is your love?

My boyfriend gave me a call this evening, attempted to mutter out some unpleasant news.

Apparently, his company requests him to work in Singapore this coming month end and the period might last 3-4 months. He kept quiet after telling me the whole thing. I guess he was concerned about my feelings. The last time he left for Singapore in July 2006 for 6 months, I had been strong. As a matter of fact, I have been more independent then.

On second thought, was he feeling insecure about our relationship instead? There has been a couple of breakups among our acquaintance lately. These indicate that, even the slightest period of time can jeopardize a relationship, especially long distance relationship.

The fact is that the better you get to know each other, the more [fragile|solid] your relationship can be. Well, the truth is, we are all standing on the fence, it can be either way. Despite love for each other, a solid relationship includes your acceptance of his EVERYTHING including financial status, family background, social circle, habits and life philosophy etc.

Haven’t you heard of the common phrase ‘因了解而分手‘?

I think tonight will be a tough night for him as he has decisions to make.

What about me? Well, I can’t predict tomorrow and I can’t make his life miserable as well. I only know that for time being, I have faith in our relationship. If we were not meant to be, holding on to each other wouldn’t do any good either.

听起来很潇洒吧？我是真的那么想。。。

So now, I need to consider about my Krabi trip in Feb ‘07 and Latin Silver classes…. ’sigh’

The inconvenient truth.

The inconvenient truth.
不愿面对的真相

At the beginning of a new year, I have made a wish. I wish that every human being has a HEART, so that he can feel, care and be responsible.

Indeed, planet earth is changing. The truth is, it was the inhabitants who have evolved.

Retaliation from the Mother Nature and animals has begun. The reoccurrence of natural disaster is increasing and the implication of global warming is getting severe. Tamed animals in zoo were attacking.

The truth is, earth is using its way to find a balance. And It was the animals’ nature to protect themselves when faced with threat. Animals are gifted with instinct to feel the existence of threat. It is human who has deprived them from who they are, where they live in and how they live. And yet, we are putting our blame on their nature. All these are signs, or rather to be precise, WARNINGS.

The basic principle of living beings on earth was to live harmoniously with others, not to deprive. We are dependent on each other but GREED in us has caused imbalance to the eco-system.

Everything must maintain a balance to stay harmonious. Yin and yang, male and female, not to forget, GIVE and TAKE. Everyone has a role to play and we should be responsible. We CANNOT take things for granted. We, human beings are sharing this planet with the other inhabitants. Although we are given the intelligence, we cannot continue trying to monopolize what is meant to be shared.

“What future have I laid for my children?”

 

“What we are abusing now is actually BORROWED from our children. Think of your children’s future。Don’t live your life alike spending with credit card.

Eventually, someone will NEED TO REPAY. That will either be your children or YOU. This is the inconvenient truth.”

– Tsi Lok –